Lesson 1: Emotional Investment, From The Book “Things A Little Bird Told Me: Confessions Of The Creative Mind” By Biz Stone

While this book is rich in terms of lessons and takeaways, it’s hard to decide which lessons to highlight and write in my blog and which ones to leave out. However, the ones I have left out, in no manner mean to be less important. In fact, the entire purpose of this post (and a few more posts to come) is to share only my favorite takeaways and lessons from the book.

So here we go, the first take away from this book is “Emotional Investment”.

According to Biz Stone, unless and until we are emotionally invested in a cause, idea, job or task, we won’t be able to truly excel in it and make the best out of it. For anyone to be truly successful, emotional investment in that activity is paramount. Furthermore, this can happen only if the idea, task, job or cause that we are pursuing is something we absolutely believe in. It shall be noted that Biz Stone’s idea of “Emotional Investment” is pretty similar to the idea behind “Passion”. But this description better explains why we should take up and pursue certain tasks and leave out others. If we truly believe in something, we would put all our time and energies in pursuing that one cause (or job, idea or any other task) we truly believe in, rather than dragging ourselves through something we don’t believe in, and are not ready to emotionally invest ourselves in it.

Lastly, emotional investment does not guarantee success directly but it does guarantee a sense of purpose and enjoyment of the hardships one encounters while aiming high. Thus, making a tough journey a more bearable experience.

Islamabad Literature Festival: View From The North

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The 2nd Islamabad Literature Festival organized by Oxford University Press kicked off in the federal capital on Friday. It generated a lot of interests in not just the intellectuals and literary figures but also amateur writers and avid readers of the twin cities. Extravaganza, crowd and noise are not the words usually used with “Islamabad” in the same sentence. However, because of the Literature Festival, these words will be definitely used alongside the otherwise slow-paced capital city. The 2nd ILF was bigger than its previous version. More book writers, more book launches and more panel discussion.

ILF  included over a 100 writers, intellectuals and literary figures from Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, Italy and Britain. It consisted of various panel discussions, book launches, and book and poetry reading sessions. Some of the highlights of the second day of the event are given below.

The Eloquent, Literary and (Yes) Funny Faryal Gohar:

The highlight of the event for me was the book reading session by Faryal Gohar. While working for a non-profit initiative in the heavenly Gilgit Baltistan she was able to connect with the women at an emotional level, she recalled. Her travel enabled her to converse more often with the women from this (and other impoverished) areas surrounded by killer peaks. It inspired her to write a book to be named “Darwaza”, which later she said, will be turned into a movie. She read a few passages from her book “No Space For Further Burials”. It was like a roller coaster ride. With ups and downs in the emotionally charged text, her voice trembled, exhibited pleasure and excitement, eloquently, before finally breaking down at an emotional narration in the story. Everybody in the audience was hooked-up, carefully listening to her majestically articulated words. However, later the discussion took a lighter turn. She was asked by Ritu Menon, the moderator of the session, to present mimicry of Shahbaz Sharif and Bilawal Bhutto Zardari. And she did it wonderfully, of course with a pinch of salt. Taunting The Metro Bus System and The Sindh Festival. Later on, while responding to the a question from the audience both Ritu Menon and Faryal Gohar reiterated the need to dislodge the concept that the sole purpose of a woman’s life is to get married.

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In the end, Faryal Gohar also had a go at Gordon Brown and the western media for cashing on what happened to Malala. On one such instance she recalls, when they presented the budget for building around 400 schools in the earthquake hit northern areas of Pakistan, Gordon Brown was indifferent. But now it is shameless how he is now treating Malala, from the same northern areas, like a mascot to further his political gains.

The Hollow Diplomats:

The discussion on the next chapter of Afghanistan by a panel of retired Pakistani diplomats seemed hollow and plain boring. One, there was a disconnect between the discussion and the ground realities. And two, it was uninspiring and dull. The discussion was not able to engage the audience. And Furthermore, questions raised by the audience on Taliban’s participation in the peace process, a puppet American govt. in Afghanistan, and Pakistan’s image in the streets of Kabul went unanswered. None of the panelists entertained these questions. Also, the discussion failed to address key issues like how Pakistan would deal with the potential problems American departure from the region might cause.

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The turnout in this session was also comparatively low. Perhaps, most of the people wanted to stay indoors in the air-conditioned halls than listen to a bunch of old, overweight and suited-in-the-hot-weather diplomats dissect the many times failed Afghan policy.

The Incomplete Panel of Pashto Poets:

It was encouraging to see regional languages such as Pashto getting attention and recognized at a national stage. Even more encouraging was to see non-Pashto speakers (such as Punjabis and Sindhis) in the audience. It was heartening to see Pashto generating such interest among the people at the Literary Festival. However, disappointing was the lack of effort put into the selection of the panelists. Apart from one of the panelists, and chairman of Pashto Academy at University of Peshawar, Ms Salma Shaheen (who couldn’t make it to the event), most of the poets were unknown even to the most literary Pukhtuns in the audience. None of the mainstream Pashto poets was invited to the event. Even more bizarre was the non-availability of a moderator.

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Pleasure of the audience would have found no bounds, had there been more poetry (and translation). But, it was more talk and less poetry, against the promise of more poetry and less talk. The session could not do justice to its title “Poetry from the troubled land: Pashto Poetry Reading with Translation”.

Mission Possible, Reforming State Schools in Pakistan:

Despite the fact that this session was also organized in the open, it turned out to be as good as it gets. A panel of experts on education providing solutions about how we can improve the quality (and quantity) of public education. To begin with, the moderator of the session, Baela Raza Jamil, presented some staggering figures that showed the dismal picture of public education in Pakistan. Later on, the panel stressed the need for a coordinated effort from parliamentarians, lawmakers, media outlets and the public.

One of the panelists, Faisal Bari, a faculty member at Lahore University of Management Sciences, said that unless the parliamentarians admit their kids in a public school, they will have no stakes in the improvement of that school. One interesting case in point is the parliamentarian from Faisalabad, who despite the stern opposition of his family, admitted his kids in a public school. Thus, leading him to frequently visit and transform that school. Faisal Bari further stressed that the discussion, even in the development circles, was on ‘testing’ and ‘monitoring’ and not the quality of education which needs a complete rethink.

The Book Fair:

Fortunately, literary festivals are accompanied by book fairs. This time was no different. There were around half a dozen stalls of different book publishers. And while I was standing at one of the book stalls. A salesperson came forth and gave me a card. It read, where would you prefer to attend our next book fair? The options included preferred locations in Islamabad only. However, to my endless pleasure there was an “other” option at the bottom of that card. The bookseller expected me to write a location within Islamabad. But against his expectation I wrote “Peshawar”. When he read the card, he gave me a smile. He understood why I wrote that. I have come all the way from Peshawar to attend this event. And I want such festivals to come back to my beloved city Peshawar as well.

An edited version appeared in The Friday Times on the 2nd May 2014 under the title “View From The North

Link: http://www.thefridaytimes.com/tft/view-from-the-north/

Celebrating Peshawar’s Rich Cultural Heritage: The Gor Gathri Arts and Crafts Festival

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The Gor Gathri Arts and Crafts Festival commenced in Peshawar on Friday 2nd May, 2014. The event was organized jointly by the Tourism Corporation of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa and Directorate of Archeology and Museums. The aim of the event was to celebrate the rich cultural heritage of this ancient archaeological site and the province at large. Additionally, it also aimed to create more awareness of the regional arts and crafts and to give these artisans a chance to showcase their skillset.

The site of Gor Gathri – perhaps one of the oldest and most important excavation sites in the city – was adorned with artificial gates, colorful lights and large portraits of some important historical figures, partly to bring the site close to its original shape. It is because of sites like Gor Gathri that Peshawar is considered to be one of the oldest living cities in South Asia. Thus, it makes it all the more important to preserve this rich cultural heritage.

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The event was kicked-off with Khattak dance, presented by a group of highly skilled dancers.  Other than that, the event included exhibition of arts and crafts from various parts of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, stalls of local food and a music gig featuring local musicians. Some of the items on display included local music instruments, hand crafted suits, hand crafted utensils, and antiques of various sorts.

Entry to the museum at the Gor Gathri was also free, which displayed various artefacts excavated from the site.

One of the big delights at events was the display of the two vintage British-era fire engines, model 1919 and 1921 made by “Merry Weather London”. However, the open display of these centennial engines attracted the wrong crowd. These highly precious engines (both in terms of monetary and historical value) remained unguarded and uncovered throughout the event. It would have been better had the glass case, which the directorate of archeology and museums intends to build, would have been built before the start of this event. Because according to DAWN, recently around 2 million rupees were spent on the preservation of these engines.

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The preparations for the event continued for a long time, but those efforts were compensated when a large number of families attended the event. It should be remembered that in comparison to other metropolitan cities, fewer events with regard to arts and crafts, and food and culture are organized in Peshawar. However, in recent time the Tourism Corporation of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa has been highly active in organizing such healthy activities and to promote tourism in the province.

It is highly important to maintain, preserve and celebrate our rich cultural heritage. Because Nations (and countries), which do not pay attention to and preserve their cultural heritage, perish, and become nobody.

Lessons Pakistan can learn from Turkey and Egypt

In  recent years, and decades, the Islamic world has seen various military interventions in the political affairs of Muslim countries. Pakistan, Algeria, Turkey and the recent events in Egypt are just a few of the many. This highlights one thing: democracy hasn’t taken roots in most of these countries. In Islamic countries, democratic GOVT are toppled frequently, reasons presented are sometimes their incompetence (even if popular) and in some case their lack of popularity and support (even if competent). Following is a list of things that Pakistan can learn from the recent coup in Egypt and the mass protest against the authoritarian rule of Erdogan in Turkey.

  1. Never celebrate a coup: while most of us would remember the images of ignorant Pakistanis distributing Mithai (sweets), when elected Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif, who had two third majority in parliament, was sacked by general Musharraf. In Egypt only few thousands cheered the sacking of Morsi and even better, thousands made it to the streets to support him and raise their voice against the unlawful coup by the army.
  2. Believe in democracy: people of Egypt got a very short opportunity to taste democracy, though not in the best form, but still there they are standing up for their leader and condemning the people who intend to sabotage it.
  3. Few would have thought that Nawaz Sharif will make a comeback in the country’s mainstream politics, but here he is the third time prime minister, and the only one in the country to hold this record. How? Because of democracy.
  4. Democratic leaders have to take tough decision, yet it’s imperative that they don’t lose their popularity.
  5. One big problem faced by countries like Pakistan, Egypt, Turkey and Algeria is the civil-military power imbalance. Obviously if the GOVT is corrupt, not making the right decisions, instead of improving the economic conditions in the country it degrades it, not able to solve problems but instead adds to the problems, it will ultimately lose the support of its people. If the GOVT wants to stay in power and shift the civil-military power imbalance in its favor, there is one only way of doing that: solve critical problems that are crippling the country and spur economic development. This will not only help GOVTs stabilize its own position but will also restore the faith of people in its GOVT and indirectly in democracy.  This is what exactly happened in the case of Turkey. Just like Pakistan, their armies had frequent interventions in their political affairs, but since Erdogan has spurred economic growth and was also able to solve key problems; he is able to look everybody in the eye and is holding the office for the third consecutive time.
  6. Democracy doesn’t take routes and solves problems in just one year (or a few years for that matter). It is a process that slowly but persistently results in the development of a country. As a wise person said once, “democracy needs four consecutive elections, after every GOVT completing its term”.

ABC’s for Leaders – “A”

Just what I needed

Leadership Freak

ABC's for Leaders

Today’s words for leaders begin with “A.”

A’s from Facebook contributors:

  1. Appreciation
  2. Ally
  3. Accessible
  4. Affirmation
  5. Accountable
  6. Available
  7. Adroit
  8. Adaptive
  9. Authenticity
  10. Audacious
  11. Aspire
  12. Alacrity (I had to look that one up. It means: cheerful readiness. Good word.)

See the entire list of A’s for leaders on Facebook. My addition to the “A” list is …

Attunement:

Leadership isn’t pressuring people to tune into you. Successful leaders tune into others. Daniel Pink calls attunement, “Perspective-taking.” (To Sell is Human)

Perspective-taking lowers barriers, connects, and enhances influence.

Those forced to defend their perspective
can’t afford to take yours.

Influence begins by taking another’s perspective.

How to Attune:

The research of Galinsky, Magee, and Gruenfeld suggest the more power you have the less likely you are to take another’s perspective.

Those in charge are out of touch
because they are in charge.

Stop assuming you have power. Status blocks perspective…

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Brief Hiatus

Its been a while that I have written anything on my Blog. Studies and job are the main things that have kept me away from writing, perhaps it shows a lake of time management on my part. But now since I am all free, Thanks to the enough number of Summer Vacations, something I always wait for. I will have the liberty to read and write more and make lesser excuses for not writing.

My to-do-list

There are only and only two things on my Summer Vacations’ To-Do-List, which are reading some of my favourite books and writing more here on my blog. Though I am not advocate of the never-ending to-do-lists, because longer to-do-list more often than not are a resultant of my procrastination. In fact it harbours laziness and leads to more and more idleness. That’s why I have kept my to-do-list very simple and short.

So guys stay tuned.

Something I always felt and wanted to say. Excellent piece by Maha Kamal.

MAHA S. KAMAL

So you want to change the world?

Everyone dreams of change in some form or another. Whether it’s political stability, economic disparities, social welfare, or even the more micro issue of loadshedding, most people have ideas on how the world would be a better place. Some are more idealistic about it and strive to make a difference. Others are more pragmatic. Some just cocoon in their own shells.

I first started Model United Nations back in 2007. It was packaged as excellent training for “the leaders of today”, a phrase that is almost clichéd now. After all, a program focused on conflict resolution, lobbying and negotiation, debate, writing and other life skills could only be useful. Simulating bodies of the United Nations and beyond, MUN aims to educate on global policies, among other things. However, by the end of most sessions, delegates soon realize that most resolutions in the real…

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Mostly Bright Ideas

I’m getting old. I thought I was getting old ten years ago, but that was nothing compared to now. On medical forms and written surveys, I’m almost in the last age group, and at some stores I qualify for a senior citizen discount. I’ve been around a long time. Yet I can still remember when doing elaborate tricks with a yo-yo was a sign of coolness. When it took less than a minute to realize there wasn’t anything on television worth watching. When there were magazine covers that did not have Jennifer Aniston’s face on them. When people said things like, “Oh yeah? Wanna bet?” and “What’re you cracked or something?” and “Cross my heart and hope to die.”

I think back on events from my childhood, and they seem to be wavy and shrouded in fog. A lot of my memories are in black and white, and the sound…

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Sharmeen Obaid-Chinoy’s Oscar and What it means for Women in Pakistan

Every year many women in Pakistan are a victim of brutal acid attacks, most of the incidents go unreported and the culprits are never convicted. Women who are a victim of such brutal torture never receive proper medical care and access to first aid, the result of which is a plethora of skin related diseases and problems.

Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy winning the Oscars

Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy‘s oscar, apart from the glamorous hustle and bustle, would do one thing, it will create more and more awareness about such a huge issue. It’s only because of her achievement that the issue which never made news has come to the limelight and is being discussed on every platform.  In Pakistan, Law making related to such important issues and human rights are both neglected areas.

Before this Oscar almost 50 percent of Pakistanis on Facebook and Twitter must have been completely alien to this issue. after the Oscar now everybody is talking about this issue and discussing it, which is the most important step in removing this menace from our society. Firstly it will create awareness and draw attention of the masses, secondly it will pave way for new laws and legislations to stop crimes of this sort and  thirdly it will create urgency in non-profit sector organizations to start working for this cause.

After the winning the Oscar Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy launched anti-acid campaign which shows her determination to get the society rid of this menace. And it’s not just her duty to work for this cause but the whole nation should stand up to atrocities of every sort. The media should also play its part by encouraging such film makers. None of the Pakistani News channels would have bought such a documentary before it won the Oscars  but now all of them must be already in queue to buy this film. If our News Channels can show Sheila, munni and other Bollywood news in their headlines so why can’t they highlight such problems?

Saving-Face

Apart from helping the survivors of these incident, film making would get a huge boost in a country where film industry is dying fast. it would encourage young film makers to come forth. It’s high time that we collectively pledge to remove this and other such problems and encourage people who stand for such causes.